Gifts and budgets

From the graduations, to the birthdays, to the tepid thank-yous, I've been curating the typical presents in efforts to convey a more mindful expression of celebration while keeping costs low.

Tip 1: Learn what the person enjoys, and choose the vehicle. This is my favorite way to shop for gifts, because it shows you pay attention to his likes/dislikes and put thought into how to make the experience even better.

Example: Professors love wine. At least, the ones I know do. (There's just something regal about scholars sharing a glass of wine while discussing works of art and science, isn't there?) Instead of gracing them with a nice $35+ wine, why not an elegant wine decanter? They are beautiful pieces of glass and come in different shapes. They also last longer than a dinner. I can find quality ones at Ross or TJMaxx for ~$10 (avg. $20-50 retail).

Tip 2: Buy them ahead of time. You don't necessarily have to wait for the occasion to buy it. Sales usually happen at end of seasons, and don't necessarily coincide with the special occasion.

Example: For the cheese-lovers, how about a cheese plate set? My boss is a known fan of quality cheese, and as I was perusing sample sale sites like ideeli and Onekingslane, I saw the brand Picnic at Ascot frequently go on sale. With a free $25 credit, I bought one for only $12 including shipping. I am now armed and ready!

Tip 3: Utility, utility, utility. Something may be pretty, but if it collects dust, it's just taking up space.

Example: My girls love bags. And my girls are busy, busy people. A canvas tote bag would do great for career-minded or college girls because you can pack so many things to it. Take it out for errands, for the beach, for class, or a casual brunch with friends. Land's end canvas had great ones on sale for under $20.

Tip 4: Let the gift find you.

Sometimes, when I'm shopping at Ross or TJMaxx, I would just peruse the houseware aisles and take notes of what's available. They have brand name stuff for less than $20, even $10! I have found Mikasa dishware that I gifted to a Japanese mentor (Mikasa = mighty Japanese dishware brand) and some Luigi Bormioli glassware that work great as wedding gifts.

And finally...for that special someone, whether it is your sister or soulmate,

Tip 5: Pool together.

Example: I knew that the most coveted shoe of dear Chadacus was way above my budget. So I asked our closest friends to chip in a bit (no more than $20) and it worked out great. Best thing is that you've included the people most important to you in the gift, and they'll always remember that.

Hope these tips help!